As you focus your energy on forgiving yourself, you might notice that it's a journey that you have put off for quite some time. It might be a path less taken for you or even a path that you were convinced did not exist for you. On such a journey, you might meet and encounter some beautiful souls who are willing to share their story with you. They’re willing to be vulnerable with you to share a part of their own journey and how they overcame certain circumstances, situations, relationships, or events that might be relatable to you. Those individuals cross paths with you and your reality for possibly a special reason. If you are open to them, then you might find a portion of your beautiful energy being unlocked. They will choose to listen to you, absorb the energy that you needed to release, and provide guidance or examples on how to channel your amazing energy again. They will appear in the most unlikely ways and in the most unlikely forms. All you need to do is be open to how your journeys will cross paths.

On the journey to forgive yourself, you might come across a few things in your past that might be there when you are feeling down. They might continue to affect you and linger to distract you. When you choose to deal with those situations, you give yourself an opportunity to let them go. As you recognize how your choices shape your reality then carefully notice the energies that you want in your life. You make the choices on who receives your beautiful energy.

Let’s take a look at two different examples:

Best friends

For some of those who are lucky in life, they'll be referred to as a best friend. Others might have a one-way relationship with their best friend. Others might not even consider the phrase or relationship that they have. And sometimes you meet an individual earlier in life and you seem to keep in touch with them over the years. You might associate what’s going on with your reality as a best friend relationship that you want. Sometimes you might converse regularly and other times you might grow apart. That best friend title can be a remnant of the past. Observe how your journey grows together and be OK with protecting your energy and channeling it in whichever manner that you want. My grandfather once said, at the end of your life, if you can count the number of friends on a single hand then you would have lived a great life.

Some people join your adventure for only a story arc or two, while others part of your reality. As you appreciate your reality, keep going on your journey. Notice which individuals truly know what's going on with you and which individuals might not even have a clue. That’s OK. Sometimes when relationships and friendships grow apart, you might feel like it's an opportunity to blame yourself. Note that the change could have nothing to do with you as individuals continue on their journey to grow and meander as they’d like. When friendships change, forgive yourself for a reality that you expected to happen. Forgive yourself to let certain friendships follow their course. Take note of how opportunities can open up as doors close. You never know when a new person, friend, or being has been waiting for you to be available to make an incredible connection with you.

Living situation

There’s that saying, home is where the heart is. When someone is in a comfortable, tumultuous, intriguing, unstable living situation, then it can influence how they channel their beautiful energy. If they don’t know where they live or how beautiful their reality actually is, then the way they channel their energy might reflect or project that reality for them. If you have no idea about the very earth that you stand on, then people can convince you of any reality. Have you questioned and found answers for anything beyond this physical realm? Are you here for a finite and meaningless purpose? Are you here for a finite and temporary purpose? Are you here for an infinite and unknown purpose? What does it mean to be alive for you? Are you living and enjoying this reality on a consistent basis or are you ready or need to move on to the next part of your journey?

Sometimes people can feel stuck in their physical reality since they're trapped by the living situation that they’re in. They will speak into existence that they are trapped and not realize that they keep recasting the same spell over and over and over again. This type of situation can lead to a lot of regrets, self-punishment, or disgust with oneself. When you forgive yourself, you might recognize that you were in that exact location and situation for a specific reason. As you continue to shape reality in an incredible way, you might make sense of why it had to unfold for you in this manner. It had to be your determination, your resilience, your kindness, and your precious energy to make a difference. It might give you the most unexpected of lessons or it might even slow you down so that you can be at the right moment with the right people at the right place soon.

As you navigate your relationships and living situations, observe how those two areas shift, mold, or affect your fantastic energy. When you forgive yourself for the things that are out of your control, then you’ll be able to harness and refine the channeling of your wonderful energy. Letting go of certain beliefs and reminders can truly make a world of difference for your extended reality.